Sometimes a person has been
so attached to his car that it makes sense to incorporate it as a personalized
element of funeral proceedings. It
might be as simple as including it in a procession to the grave. But, on the other hand, it could become
a storied aspect of an extraordinary life wrap-up:
In 1994, according to seventy-one-year-old George Swanson’s request, his
cremated remains were placed in the driver’s seat and buried in his prized
sports car, a white 1984 Corvette.
It occurred in Pennsylvania’s Brush Creek Cemetery, twenty-five miles east
of Pittsburgh, where he had purchased twelve plots for this purpose. A crane lowered the car into a seven-by-seven, sixteen-foot
grave. A lap quilt made by a group
from Swanson’s church was in the vehicle, along with a love note from his
wife. An Engelbert Humperdinck
tape in the cassette deck, with the song, “Release Me,” had been cued up and
ready to play. The license plate
read “HI-PAL,” which was Swanson’s typical greeting when he didn’t remember someone’s
name. A headstone with an etching of a Corvette marks the spot. What an example of a customized
funeral proceeding!
Other pre-planners have eschewed the piecemeal approach and, instead, have opted for a more overt physical presence within their prized chariots.
Other pre-planners have eschewed the piecemeal approach and, instead, have opted for a more overt physical presence within their prized chariots.
At the Alamo Masonic
Cemetery in San Antonio, Texas, a casual meanderer on its property wouldn’t
necessarily know about a car that is sequestered in the ground underneath a
simple grave marker. In 1977 Sandra
Ilene West, a Beverly Hills socialite and young widow of a Texas oil millionaire,
died at the age of thirty-eight. She
had left specific directions for her brother-in-law, Sol West, to handle
arrangements assuring that her body would be buried in her 1964 powder blue
Ferrari 330 America. Though adamantly
disinclined to comply with her wish, Sol eventually was compelled to make it
happen, in accordance with legal mandates and Sandra’s will that stated he would
receive over two million dollars if the request was realized, but only ten
thousand dollars if not. Sandra had dictated her
attire, so she was dressed in a lacy nightgown, and she wanted the seat in
which she was placed to be at a “comfortable” angle. The car with the woman’s body behind the wheel was encased in
a six-by-eight-by-seventeen-foot box and transported to the gravesite on a
flatbed truck. After placement in
the nine-foot-deep grave, the hefty underground mass of wood, steel, and
concrete was covered, thereby restoring the ground surface to a conventional
appearance. Passersby are none the wiser!
More recently, in 2009, Lonnie
Holloway, from Saluda, South Carolina who had died at the age of 90, got his wish in absentia... well, not really! Friends said he had always insisted on being buried in his
1973 Pontiac Catalina, next to his wife’s body. After a traditional church service and in a traditional
cemetery, many folks gathered at the gravesite where an unusually large plot
was in readiness. A wrecker with a crane lowered the car, supported by four
straps, and positioned it in the grave. Inside was the occupant, sitting
upright behind the wheel, bedecked in his hat and sunglasses, headed for his
final destination. All of the man’s
guns had been placed in the car, as he had requested; he wanted to take them
with him so they wouldn’t get into the wrong hands. The owner of the wrecker had been contacted by the funeral
home a year before Holloway’s death to prepare for this strikingly atypical
burial, which allowed the man to be laid to rest with the two features of his life
he had loved the most – his wife and his car.
So, given these instances, maybe one should think twice before uttering the commonplace saying, “you can’t take it with you.” Maybe you can!
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So, given these instances, maybe one should think twice before uttering the commonplace saying, “you can’t take it with you.” Maybe you can!
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