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Content here represents the voice of SIGNATURE SUNSETS, an informational initiative designed to broaden and brighten horizons in the funerary domain.

The material is an outgrowth of a pre-planning reference book, Pondering Leaves: Composing and Conveying Your Life Story's Epilogue, written by the author of this blog.

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Showing posts with label FUNERARY TRANSPORTATION. Show all posts
Showing posts with label FUNERARY TRANSPORTATION. Show all posts

Sunday, May 3, 2015

FUNERAL HOME ANTIQUES... Stationary and Mobile

Journey Journal... Venice, Florida

OLD TIME REVIVAL

At a funeral home, certainly it’s fairly routine to find antique people, or at least their vestigial shells that carried them through a long life.  But one doesn’t ordinarily walk into such an establishment and immediately sense the likeness of an antique shop.   

The owners of Farley Funeral Home have capitalized on an opportunity to share treasured relics with the ongoing stream of individuals passing through their facilities.  Upon entering the Venice site, one immediately sees insignias of the past in an area akin to a living room decorated with antique furnishings.  


A collection of canes in a corner of the room sets the stage for a walk through time.

Source:  Farley Facebook Page

But artifacts of yore are not confined only to that part of the building.  Rather, such curios of antiquity dot the domain throughout the premises, both here and at their other location in North Port.  

Source:  Farley Funeral Homes Website

An old ice box with a lift lid is conveniently situated near offices, serving a utilitarian purpose as a depot for storage of pamphlets.  Above it is a small wooden unit of shelving where an assortment of “remember when?” thimbles is on display.  Sewing machines are focal points in visitation areas amid pieces of furniture upholstered in old-world, flowery fabric.  Just in case people waiting to sign a guest book need some exercise, a butter churn is on the floor next to it.  A record player stands ready for action, probably less in terms of generating music and more in the way of evoking memories.  

Source:  Farley Facebook Page

Recollections may be further enhanced by the presence of musical instruments, such as an old piano and an organ.  

Source:  Farley Funeral Homes Website

Of course, it’s not surprising that there would be burial containment here that meshes with the motif.
Source:  Farley Facebook Page

A visitor can readily discern that the abundance of antiques is indicative of their value to the owners beyond monetary assignations.  It’s fortunate for them, as well as the community, that they own places apart from their home where conquests of their zealous passion can be consummated and appreciated.   

Information about each dated item is maintained in a loose-leaf binder chock full of pages documenting descriptive details.  All of the relics are  categorized according to the rooms in which they are located.  


Even the personnel have donned representative garb resurrected from a previous era. 

Source:  Farley Facebook Page

A presentation pertaining to Abraham Lincoln’s years offered a suitable opportunity for representative attire to bring it to life. 

Source:  Farley Facebook Page

Though epoch leftovers from bygone days are aplenty here, they are not limited to interior rooms.  Perhaps the most widely noticeable evidence of the antique concentration can be found in the garage.  There, two remnants of an earlier mode of transport are momentarily at rest, but not in peace.  

Vehicles denoting a previous generation, resplendent as earmarks of history, are maintained and ready for purposeful missions.  Use of these atypical conveyances for bodily remains is offered as an alternative to conventional means.  


A 1937 Ford hearse is one of the unusual offerings. 

Source:  Farley Facebook Page

For veterans, folks may opt for a World War II-era, 1941 Dodge military truck to pull a caisson bearing the casket.  

Source:  Farley Facebook Page

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A coordinating 1943 Willy’s Army jeep leads the funeral processions and may be used in the context of other commemorative tributes, particularly, placement by the graveside of a veteran following burial.  

Source:  Fox News Video

Source:  Farley Funeral Homes Website

Military processions employing these vehicles are limited to trips between the funeral home and either its own burial grounds – Venice Memorial Gardens – or the nearby Sarasota National Cemetery.  

Source:  Fox News Video

Source:  Farley Facebook Page

However, at times these alternative transporters have been diverted from their usual routes, for the sake of broadcasting to local residents their availability.  In fact, a “Spot the Farley” contest motivated people to snap a picture upon encountering one of the roving novelties and then post it on Facebook.  That rendered the folks eligible to be selected from a pool of participants who correctly answered questions about the vehicles.  

Source:  Farley Facebook Page

It’s readily apparent that the owners of this funeral home go out of their way to provide meaningful experiences, particularly in tribute to veterans.  The usual sorts of provisions through the United States Veterans Administration are complemented by the embellishments of relevant transportation.  Behind-the-scenes proceedings that traditionally take place at burial sites are preceded by a military sendoff on wheels.  The captivating sight of it is apt to draw the attention of people in the vicinity.  Some of them are veterans themselves who, upon seeing the “ruffles and flourishes” and sensing the pomp of the occasion, feel a surge of connection with their military brethren.  Often they stop, salute, and lay their hands on their hearts.  

Whether out on the road or contained within the facility’s buildings, the vintage attractions on display bespeak not only a theme, but especially a legacy of compelling regard for the lineage of our past.  While reflecting the charm of yesteryears, they engender associations that set the wheels of remembering in motion… an important step toward healing from the wounds of loss.  

Probably aged visitors who at some point in their lives have lived among such furnishings feel right at home here.  Perhaps the “home” aspect of the nomenclature, funeral home, resonates authentically for them because of Farley’s signature milieu.  It can be comforting to wallow in vestiges of embedded familiarity when immersed in the unaccustomed territory of death.  




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Tuesday, June 17, 2014

UNUSUAL FUNERARY ACTIVITIES

OFFBEAT HARMONY

Have you ever hurriedly approached the drive-through lane at a fast food shop only to find a long line of cars in a funeral procession ahead of you?  What a whopper of frustration this brand of an unconventional bottleneck could cause!

Such a scenario that would seem unlikely actually occurred at a Burger King in York, Pennsylvania recently.  Before heading to a cemetery the hearse and cars following it pulled up to the window where each mourner was given a sandwich.  It wasn’t because everyone was famished.  The detour that broke from tradition was a personalized gesture that alluded to the decedent’s longtime habit of patronizing fast food establishments. To accentuate the point, a burger was placed atop the individual’s flag-draped coffin.  This unusual digression from the norm added flavor to the usual proceedings, bestowing upon guests memorable substance while alerting the media to a novelty deemed worthy of sharing with the world. 

Arrangements had been made with the restaurant crew so the sandwiches would be ready to be doled out.  The elderly man for whom this tribute was orchestrated had been a regular customer; the manager was familiar with his repetitive order.  Rather than having been contrived as a whimsical maneuver, the initiative was conceived as a way to honor the man and recognize an element of life that had been a pleasurable part of his lifestyle. 

During the same time period a commemoration took place in the New York village of Owego where a beloved firefighter was celebrated by a large gathering of people.  Many stories were shared, including one by a friend who related a favorite pastime of throwing toilet paper during younger days.  His commentary drew applause from the crowd, as people recognized the significance of the white toilet paper they had encountered earlier in the day on their way to the services.  It had been strewn in trees lining a street they had used to reach the memorial site.  Why?  Not for fun, but symbolically to spur recognition of a personal distinction that helped define the individual whose life had ended.

You may be surprised by funerary trends toward notions that bespeak individuality. Instead of old stereotypes, watch for new prototypes in the realm of memorial remembrances.  
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Friday, January 17, 2014

BOOK ANNOUNCEMENT

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THE BABY
This book is different.  It is a BIG and BOUNTIFUL reference guide in two volumes for anyone with the wisdom and loving kindness to make end-of-life decisions while fully alive.  Instead of a cursory overview of some aspects of funerary management, it provides details pertaining to every element a pre-planner might want to consider.  Symbolic representations are key components, prompting an exploration of one’s characteristics as determinants of personal preferences and potential arrangements.

It is designed with reverence for the painful reality of inevitable death while offering an upbeat event planning perspective.  Family needs are addressed in conjunction with the sense of satisfaction that can be derived from planning ahead and having a say in the matter.

Novel ideas and modern innovations enlivening the funeral industry pervade the content, which also encompasses detailed descriptions of conventional approaches and familiar products.       

Whimsical threads are woven through practical matters, based on a presumption that someone is more apt to broach a formidable topic if it is peppered with entertainment.

Utilitarian content is interspersed periodically with offbeat vignettes for spirit refreshment and promotion of comfort.  Such asides either exemplify main points or simply dot the domain with streaks of colorful invigoration.  Other inserts serve the same purpose, with rhyming quips, fun exercises, and the presence of multiple frog illustrations as a reminder that this resource is about croaking.”  That is, learning about end-of-life options will enable communication and an opportunity to make one’s voice heard before it is too late.  A planner will be endowed with a chance to bestow upon family members the ultimate gift of guidance.   

A journey through this compendium could be regarded as a recreational retreat, within a playground of figurative word structures in the form of analogies, metaphors, and idioms.  The text is suffused with double meanings, occasional fantasy images, and even some sexual inferences for added pizzazz.

Upon reaching the end of this book, a reader is apt to have discovered the joy of individuality, especially in this context of choosing relevant ways to leave life in a manner best suited to oneself.  The underlying goal of adopting personalized approaches is apt to invoke a desire to recognize and celebrate the uniqueness of one’s own life.  And reluctantly mortal “NAYsayers” will assuredly be transformed into prepared “YEAHsayers”!  
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Friday, September 28, 2012

FUNERAL HOME BICYCLE HEARSE

PEDAL PUSHERS

Vehicular gridlock in cities, pollution from internal-combustion engines, and obesity caused by sedentary habits are “out.”  Bicycles are “in.”  Portland, Oregon is at the top of the list of places where purposeful and recreational bike riding has become an increasingly common lifestyle.  In fact, this mecca was dubbed “America’s most bike-friendly city” by Bicycling Magazine, and there is even a website (BikePortland.org) to promote the practice.  People on bikes there are accommodated by designated street lanes and parking corrals in front of businesses.  Cycling commuters wield a conspicuous presence amid their motored counterparts.  The city serves as a prototype for other large metropolitan areas seeking to encourage this mode of transportation and even launch bike-share programs allowing residents to rent bikes (for an hour or a day) from kiosks.   

So for many folks in Portland, using bikes to get around is a way of life.  But an enterprising cemetery operator in a community a couple of hours south of the city has also made it a way of death.  With the goal of transforming the Sunset Hills Cemetery in Eugene, Oregon into a natural burial site, a range of ecologically sound products and services are being offered.  One of them is the use of a bicycle hearse!  A three-wheeled bike was adapted so that an open-air structure bearing a casket or coffin can be placed inside it. 

Of course, biking to a final resting place has been possible for a long time simply by contracting with a business that operates motorcycle hearses.  It’s a matter of locating one of multiple companies available to provide both the equipment and the service (a driver) within one’s geographical region. Some pull glass-enclosed coaches, à la nineteenth-century convention, or carriages suggestive of a style from the old west.  Others have adapted motorcycles so that sidecars support the caskets.

But if you would like your last ride to be away from the roar or drone of mechanized sounds, watch for emergence of the wheeled carriers earmarked by "zero emissions" and propelled by people (hopefully, also functioning in the absence of any untoward emissions!).  If you opt for this type of trendy transport, your life companions are apt to garner lasting memories of the trip to your grave.

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